Thoughts ...

Just woke up from my afternoon nap and the sound of rain falling can still be heard. Hmmm ... Things around does look a bit peaceful and cosy when the rain falls. I do hope i can sleep a bit longer. The bed and pillow are so soft. Not too cold but just that right kind of temperature that makes you fell asleep when you stay a bit longer on them. Haha ... what am i crapping anyway ?

To be honest, i can find no topic to talk about. Nothing special about my day. Just the usual study,eat and sleep. But the urge to blog is strong in me and here i am, writing mostly nonsense things. Ha ha. I am such a time waster...

But there is this one thing that is really swimming inside my thoughts. People do change in their attitude when they are in a relationship. Well, i do not mean it will be bad nor do i say it will be good. But it depends on each individuals. Mostly, changes can be seen in those first timer. Ha ha

So, how does this silly thought come to me? Let's see... Course, it starts off when few of my friends around has found their girl ^.^ One is having a long distance relationship because of studies while few are in a relationship with girls from the same institute of learning. So, what had i observe throughout this few months? Funny though ... Haha ... Fortunately, most of my friend does change to be a bit 'soft' and open thinking. Meaning here, no longer that cool or pretending to be macho ! A friend of mine who do not really care about others welfare now cares so much about the welfare of the people around him. Hmmm ... what is the word again ? ya ya ... mature ... He has gotten matured. He behaves more like an adult i can say. Not much naive thinkings like before... LOL

That will be good. But there are some who turned a bit cold toward us and don't mingle with us like before. Well, don't have any idea why does this happen, so most of the time, we friends will just say "Aiya, is like this de la, pak-toh ma, suan le ba". Well, there is truth in it since i myself had been in a relationship before. Being in a relationship, of course you will choose to be with the girl you loved when there is extra time that you can kill. And of course, most of the thing will be she she she... Ha ha. But for us friends, we do hope you can be back just like how you used to be when with us. We can understand that you is in a relationship but that doesn't mean you should show coolness and self-ego when with us. If we did say something wrong about you when we joke, we should be given a chance to know what we said wrong. Just like before... No point keeping it to yourself like how you keep it when you are with your girl. Well, most guys does keep their feeling to themselve, rite ? Haha. We are friends and brothers if you take us as brothers. So, there is nothing we can't talk about.

There, some observations from my daily journey and well,i can't resist, a bit of opinions as well as views.